Xtreme H20 Water-based lubricant is a great way to make sure that you have the slippery feeling that you need to keep everyone happy. Penetration can hurt if it’s too dry, regardless of whether you’re with a partner or using a toy. Water-based lubes won’t degrade a condom. They’re also not going to break down any toys, ensuring that they’re one of the safest options for you to use.